Adat Creation – Sarapoh and The Origin of Death Rites
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In the generation that lived just before the first major Iban migration, Retak Dai married Kelitak Darah Menyadi, a sister of lemambang Bujang Sampang Gading, who died and was brought to life by Ini Inda, the Shaman Goddess. The myth of the lemambang and his sister is associated with the origin of bards (lemambang) and bardic singing performed at the Iban Gawai Burong Festival in honor of Iban God of War, Sengalang Burong. Retak Dai and Kelitak Darah Menyadi bore a son they named Sarapoh, an ancestral hero who is the principal lawgiver and instituted the traditional rites of death and mourning.
Until the time of Sarapoh, death rites are said to have been unknown among the ancestors of the Ibans. The bodies of the dead were simply carried into the forest and left without proper rituals or burial. Thus occurred great plague from diseases that cause many deaths in the community. In its height, as mentioned in the iban oral narratives, Sarapoh’s father died in the morning, his mother died in the evening, all in one day. As he mourned his loss, Sarapoh heard a voice calling to him. The voice asked him why he and his followers grieved and he answered that it was because so many of his people had died. The voice asked what observances they practiced in death, to which Sarapoh replied that there is none. The voice then said, this being the case, it was not surprising that many had died. The spirit then explained how to prepare the bodies of the dead for burial and describe the details of proper mourning, as follows:
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Immediately after death, the corpse must be properly washed and dressed in its best clothes. After this, its forehead is marked with three yellow spots of turmeric (kunyit) and finally the corpse is moved to the gallery (ruai) where it is placed inside an enclosure of woven blankets measuring nine feet on each side.
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On the next day, just before the funeral takes place, food must be offered to the corpse before it is put inside a coffin; and at the cemetery, the coffin must be buried deep underneath the earth.
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When people return from the burial ground, the windows of the deceased’s room must be kept close particularly at night; for it is said that while it is dark in this world, it is light in the afterworld and vice versa. At the same time a senior lady selected to tie up a sacred mourning jar.
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That same evening, a ritual fire (tungkun api) must be lit in a special hut where food is placed for each of three evenings. The reason for this is for fear that the soul of the dead person might stray up to the longhouse and disturb the souls of the living.
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For the same three days, an old woman will be appointed to eat black rice (asi chelum), which is an indication of the black rice in this world and white rice in the other world during the mourning period.
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The sacred jar is not to be opened except by a warrior who has managed to obtain a head, or by a man who can present a human head, which he obtained in a fight; or by a man who has returned from a sojourn in enemy country.
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After the mourning period has expired, a special feast known as gawai rugan or gawai antu must be held as a last rites.
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During the whole period of mourning right up to the gawai antu festival, no widow or widower may remarry or anoint himself or herself with perfumes and coloured powder, or dress himself or herself with coloured garments. If such things happen, the offender will be brought before the chief and fined.
Having finished, the spirit revealed himself as the spirit Puntang Raga. He then disappeared.According to Puntang Raga’s instructions, a small amount of property belonging to the deceased must be placed inside a sacred mourning jar (more commonly a box, the lengguai) and securely bound with cord or creeper and on concluding of the mourning period called ulit, the jar must be opened in a rite called ngetas ulit. This should be done by a warrior who has taken a human head, or has successfully journeyed through enemy land.
In order to perform ngetas ulit, and so release his followers from mourning restrictions, Sarapoh traveled the Kantu territory, bringing with him a menaga jar as an exchange for anyone who wants to challenge him to a death duel. He ends up with no challenger, but instead manage to adopt a Kantu child, which he exchanged for the jar. Within hearing distance from his longhouse, he took the head of the Kantu child he adopted and shouted three times to declare the mourning period is over. This cruel action angered the Kantu community and so bring about inter tribal warfare into the world of humankind. This war between the Iban and Kantu people continued from one generation to another until peace was concluded with the marriage of an Iban chief named Jelian and Tiong, a daughter of a Kantu Chief.The first casualty of this Iban-Kantu enmity were Sarapoh’s very own three sons: Chundau, Sempaok and Bada.
Throughout the night, following their death, Remi, their sister, weeps and laments. Thus Remi introduces the practice of nyabak, the singing of the sabak or poem of lamentation for the dead. The words of the sabak describe the journey of the deceased’s soul to the otherworld (menoa sebayan) escorted by the soul of the sabak singer.An antu gerasi spirit named Rukok overheard Remi’s lamentation. He appears in the human form to seek Remi’s hand in marriage. As bride wealth, Rukok pledges a gift of Kantu’s head to Remi’s father Sarapoh. Following their marriage, Rukok leads Sarapoh followers in a series of victorious battles over the Kantu. He also led various kayau anak, or small raids, against the people of other tribes. In the process, he teaches the Iban the tactics of warfare and at the same time, introduced the marriage rules of using freshly taken head as brides’ wealth. This was practiced in the next generations by Chief Jelian & Tiong, Demong & Rinda, Beti ‘Berauh Ngumbang’, OKP Dana ‘Bayang’ & Mengan.
Research & Compile by Gregory N. Mawar
Source materials: by Professor Clifford Sather & Late Benedict Sandin, published on The Sarawak Museum Journal Vol.XLVI No.67, Dec 1994.

It seems to me that Gawai Antu is not strictly held for dead warriors as written below but all other deads.
Anyway, what is the purpose of ngirup ai jalong timang?
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Gawai antu was held for the spirits of dead warriors who lost their heads in battle. At this gawai, the spirits are invited from the mythical land of the dead called Sebayan to join the living longhouse folk for the last time. The warriors in attendance, who take part in the drinking of the sacred rice wine called ai jalong, are Iban braves who have taken the life of an enemy, if not a head, at some time in their lives. Because the head represents supremacy, the comrades of Iban warriors who died in battle would lop off the heads of their friends so that they would not fall into enemy hands. Unquote
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Tabi basa agai bala mayuh
Baru keterubah iya maca leka jaku sumping ba baroh nyak.
Does the term sumping below refer to opening of the sacred mourning jar upon
obtaining a fresh head?
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The sacred jar is not to be opened except by a warrior who has managed to obtain a head, or by a man who can present a human head, which he obtained in a fight; or by a man who has returned from a sojourn in enemy country.
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There is a similar observance called sumping, which is carried out at
a varying period after death. They take the symbols and trophies of a head-
hunting raid, and the wailer is supposed to procure the services of the spirit of
the winds to convey them to the dead, whose abode, before full of darkness
and discomfort, is now, at sight of the trophies, filled with light ; for they
have the satisfaction of feeling that their relations have revenged upon others
their own death ; so henceforth they stand more freely upon their own
footing.
This observance, which, according to ancient custom, could not be
performed until the head of an enemy had been obtained, brings out the
darker and fiercer side of the Dyak nature. They would fight with death if
they could ; but as they cannot, they rejoice in taking vengeance upon the
living, whenever a chance of killing the enemies of their tribe offers itself;
so as to be able to say to themselves : ** My relatives have revenged my
death. I am now on equal terms with the evil fate which has sent me
hither.” But in these times, when they live under a strong and civilized
government, it is very seldom that this observance can be carried out in its
fulness ; and therefore it is either slurred over by some mild substitute, or
omitted altogether.
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[...] Origin of Adat Iban Part 3 [...]
Jeff Nieman,
Ijau “Lang” was a famous Iban war leader during his time (mid-1800 AD). Ijau is his real name and “Lang” means “Hawk” which is his praise name for his bravery in battle. His other praise name is “Berani” which means “The Fearless”. So he is called by both names Ijau “Berani” or Ijau “Lang”.
Sir, Your website is a treasure trove of Iban history! My wife is chinese, adopted by Iban. I am American but have become facsinated by her Iban familys ancestry. Her brother who is something of family historian wrote down what he knew of his family’s migration back to living in Indonesia. He traces his family name back through to the parents of Ijau Lang, some sort of Iban warrior. I found your site in searching that name and I see you have so much aplicable and thorough information to expand what I know (and pass on to my daughter).
Thank You and I cant wait to get what I printed from your site home and start reading!!
Christain,
There is no direct rout to Jakarta from Miri. You may go via Kuching or Kuala Lumpur. From Kuala Lumpur, you have a beter choice. Cheers.
Hi Gregory,
Thanks for your reply. My travel plans are continually being revised. It does seem more or less certain that I shall be in Kuching from the 2nd of April till the 4th of April. If possible I would be happy to visit you in Miri on the 3rd or the 4th of April.
My return flight to Amsterdam leaves Jakarta on the evening of the 5th of April. What would you recommend as a route to Jakarta from Miri? Should I return first to Kuching or is there a better way?
I was planning to either fly with Air Asia from Kuching to Pontianak and then with Batavia air to Jakarta or otherwise Air Asia to Kuala Lumpur and then Air Asia from KL to Jakarta.
Regards
Christian
Christain Gibson,
Thanks for dropping in and for publishing my text message to Dayak youth. I never thought that it is for such a wide audience. Nevertheless, my message is basically for the Dayak youth to help themselves and not to expect any favour from the Government. There is more to be achieved by living a peaceful life and live in fear of only God.
I would be very happy to meet you should you come over to Miri. I would like to understand more about your foundation.
Hi Gregory,
I contacted you last year regarding the website we were making for Yayasan Kobus in Sintang, Kalimantan.
You replied with some text for our website for which I am grateful. We have published your text under the heading “a message to Dayak youth” in our pages about Dayak ethnology – link: http://www.borneowildlife.info/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=22&Itemid=36
I am planning to visit Sarawak and Kalimantan from the 20th May till 5th of April. I am returning to Amsterdam on the 5th of April. Although time is short, I would appreciate an opportunity to meet you to discuss our tentative plans for creating an English language/information science school in Kalimantan. Would a meeting be possible in the period between the 1st and 3rd of April?
Regards,
Christian Gibson
information science lecturer
University en Hogeschool van Amsterdam
Netherlands